What Are the Signs of a Narcissistic Son?

Narcissism is a kind of sexual metamorphosis of self as the object of sexual love, often manifested as shadow love, that is, using its own image as the object of love, but sometimes it can also be the past self or slightly deformed self image as the object. According to Robert's point of view, all the phenomena of spontaneous emotions that are not stimulated by others can be called narcissism. It includes daydreaming of sex, sleep of sex, shadow love, and masturbation (self-prostitution, masturbation), among which It is the most typical phenomenon of narcissism. Shadow love is more common in women, and the emotions caused by Gu Ying's self-pity or self-meditation.

Narcissism

Narcissism is a kind of sexual metamorphosis of self as the object of sexual love, often manifested as shadow love, that is, using its own image as the object of love, but sometimes it can also be the past self or slightly deformed self image as the object. According to Robert's point of view, all the phenomena of spontaneous emotions that are not stimulated by others can be called narcissism. It includes daydreaming of sex, sleep of sex, shadow love, and masturbation (self-prostitution, masturbation), among which It is the most typical phenomenon of narcissism. Shadow love is more common in women, and the emotions caused by Gu Ying's self-pity or self-meditation.

Chinese name

Narcissism

Foreign name

narcissism

Visiting department

Psychiatry

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head

Signs and symptoms

Individuals love their bodies

Disease Alias: Narcissism

Also known as narcissism, shadow love, or

family environment

Single-parent families play an important role in the formation of narcissism. The love and intimacy of a single parent to an only child can be sexual, and often can cause the child to have the same or subconscious consciousness. In addition, parents are divorced because of bad feelings, so the hatred and dissatisfaction of the father or mother towards each other is often shown in front of the child, making the child feel that others are not cute and should not be contacted, which promotes the development of narcissism.

1. The object of sexual desire in narcissistic patients is the self, usually manifested as shadow love. That is, there was a strong sexual desire for the local person at that time, and he or she was the object of sexual behavior.

2. Narcissism patients generally have no sexual interest in the opposite sex and a certain sexual interest in the same sex, but they must be members of their own type. Most of her sexual behaviors are masturbation, masturbation, sexual dreams, sexual hallucinations and other masturbation sexual activities, sometimes involving homosexual or heterosexual sexual activities, but do not love each other, but imagine sexual activity as another self having sexual relations with yourself.

3. Such patients have a strong subconscious self-love. The love for others is incidental, and it shows a consistent indifference in emotion, and does not care about the surroundings and others. Usually rejecting extra-marital sexual relations or sexual relations that may damage their reputation and body, show love in social life and do not involve peachy events.

4. Many patients have a clear tendency towards individualism and egoism. They usually exaggerate, praise and express themselves, often fantasizing about their looks, their talents, their abilities, and their thoughts. There is a lonely self-respect in the feelings and inner world. In interpersonal communication, it shows that it is self-interested, takes me as the center, and acts extreme, when it is criticized, encounters setbacks or fails, it shows

When diagnosing narcissism, pay attention to distinguishing from homosexuality, sexual aversion, and abstinence. Narcissism and homosexuality are the same sex, but the former is the same sex, and the latter is other same-sex members. According to research data, many homosexuals can have both narcissism. For example, some homosexuals only like homosexual members who look like themselves. Although the two sometimes overlap, for example, they are both interested in homosexual members who look like themselves, but narcissists do not love homosexual partners, sexual activities are selfish, and most of them are clean and self-loving personality; Sexual aversion is an aversion to sexual activity, but it does not have infinite praise and sexual desire for oneself; abstinence people have sexual desire for others, but they are avoided by self-restraint, while narcissism is no sexual desire for others.

Once narcissism is formed, it is generally difficult to correct, mainly because when the diagnosis is established, the situation is already quite serious, the relevant concepts and personality have basically solidified, with strong self-protection and refusal to treat. Therefore, the prevention of narcissism should be given priority to, and the child's adaptive care and reasonable education are an important measure.

Children and adolescents exhibit narcissistic behavior, as long as they find and find out the reason in time, carry out appropriate education and adjust and improve the environment, encourage children to participate in group activities more, and more contacts with partners, it can be eliminated. For those with narcissism who have obvious symptoms of mental depression, psychotherapy can generally achieve better results. Treat them with a kind and gentle attitude, help them recognize their personal personality flaws and build confidence to correct them. They are generally acceptable, and the more difficult the situation, the better the effect.

Xiao Yan is such a patient. He is 20 years old, handsome and handsome, and looks handsome. People call him "beautiful man". He was divorced from his parents, his mother abandoned him, and he became the adoptive son of others, without love and loneliness. His childhood without loved ones and love has developed his introverted and arrogant character. He is selfish and cannot hold others in his mind. His only form of masturbation is looking in the mirror and masturbating in front of the mirror. He never associates with women, never gets close to women, and never even thinks about having sex with women. The only pleasure Xiao Xiao repeated for a long time was masturbation, masturbating in the mirror image of herself, or imagining her "perfect body".

Seeing his weird temperament, the adoptive parents were reluctant to associate with others, and often masturbated in front of the mirror, or squatted by the water, watching the reflection in the water ... They thought his son was mentally abnormal, so he persuaded him, and accompanied him to see a psychologist The doctor gave him a neuropsychological examination and denied that Xiaoyan had a mental illness. The adoptive parents are still not assured, and they also take a puppet to see a sexual psychological consultation clinic. Experts told the two elderly people that their son was suffering from a sexual metamorphosis called "narcissism".

In fact, everyone loves themselves. Modern guys and girls spend a lot of time in front of the mirror every day, dressing up, grooming, and admiring their physical beauty. This is a normal self-love, which is common to everyone. However, if you are overly self-loving, or present your sexual desire for self-image in self-love, or masturbate and reach orgasm (sexual satisfaction) when you are in love with self-image, it should be regarded as abnormal. This kind of body image is used as a sexual object. If you have a strong sexual desire for yourself, and it is difficult to overcome the formation of addiction, it is called narcissism.

The sexual orientation of narcissism is sex, and it is the self, who has a strong sexual desire for their own images, usually using their mirror, photos or imaginary self, or even the future or idealized self as sexual desire. Object.

There are also people with narcissism who are sexually oriented toward other homosexual individuals similar to themselves and engage in actual homosexual activity. Occasionally, the opposite sex is imagined as an ego and has sexual relations with it. Narcissists who have sex with same-sex or heterosexual individuals are controlled by a strong subconscious self-love, they will think of sexual activity as another self having sex with themselves, not that they really love another homosexual Or the opposite sex. In most cases, their love for themselves is extremely strong, and their love for others is incidental. Their more common sexual behavior is masturbation, such as masturbation, sexual dreams, sexual fantasies, etc.

The occurrence of narcissism in the crowd is relatively rare, because of its strong lonely and fragrant mentality, it is difficult to contact with the opposite sex, so it is mostly celibate. Narcissism and clean self-love personality, homosexuality, sexual aversion, and some of the early symptoms of mental illness are involved, intersecting, and many narcissistic people do not have prominent sexual emotions, lack of sexual activity, etc., all make narcissism Diagnosis is difficult.

The treatment of narcissism is also difficult, because once the diagnosis is established, the relevant concepts and personality have basically solidified, they are alone, refuse to seek medical treatment, and refuse to change their state.

The disease is still mainly based on psychological treatment. It is necessary to patiently establish a good relationship with the patient, obtain patient understanding, trust and cooperation, patiently guide the patient to return to the environment of early wrong habits, analyze it objectively, make it understand, and sincerely help them to know the individual. Personality defects, encourage them to correct, and encourage them to participate in group therapy so that they can communicate and communicate with each other.

The formation of narcissism is mainly related to the upbringing of childhood. Therefore, the prevention of narcissism mainly starts from childhood. Experts believe that children s conscious and unconscious praise and affection from their parents, especially the only child, become the core of the family, or little emperor. Children are generally loved by their loved ones, and since childhood, they have considered themselves the most perfect or incompetent. By comparison, everything is centered on me, I am the only one, and I am the only one. These children do not know that they should care about and love others. They manifest obvious selfishness and individualistic tendencies everywhere, laying the foundation for the formation of narcissism. .

Due to the family's excessive protection of children and neglecting children's social development from childhood, children often lack the contact with opposite sex and same-sex partners, which undoubtedly promoted the formation of narcissism. Therefore, to encourage children to interact with children of the same age from a young age can cultivate children's interpersonal skills and prevent the formation of narcissism.

Disturbances in family relationships and parent-child relationships also play an important role in the formation of narcissism. Parental relationships are broken, and mutual dissatisfaction and hatred between parents can make children feel unlovable to others and make children feel like living with the opposite sex in the future. It is a mistake that even your parents are the objects you should not contact, so you will feel that only you are the closest object.

When childhood narcissism tends to be corrected as soon as possible, appropriate environmental adjustments and education measures can be given in time to encourage children to participate in games and group activities, boldly interact with children of different genders, learn to help others, love others, and treat yourself Stay in the group. Especially for children who are in the same-sex attachment period (7-12 years old), it is necessary to strengthen guidance on their interpersonal communication, which has a positive effect on preventing narcissism.

The occurrence of narcissism may also be related to personal sexual trauma, in which one or other insurmountable problems arise in their interactions with the opposite sex or sexual partners in the future, and they are severely hit mentally or physically related to sex, It can also cause patients to lose interest in heterosexuality or homosexuality and become narcissistic.