What Are the Benefits of Counseling Before Marriage?

The pre-marital counseling is mainly based on the in-depth understanding and understanding between the two people. At the same time, it gives individuals the opportunity to think about and explore the communication mode and family structure of their native family before marriage, which will affect their own and future family organization.

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The pre-marital counseling is based on in-depth understanding and understanding between the two, and at the same time gives individuals the opportunity to think and explore their own family before marriage.

Discussion topics include: communication and expression, understanding each other's original family, how to deal with conflict, clarification of values, close love, spiritual life in marriage, etc. [1]

1. Marriage Expectations: Couples (partners) have full discussion and consensus on the meaning and expectations of marriage.

2. Husband and wife communication: The husband and wife (community) have good communication skills and skills. Through communication and sharing, the husband and wife (community) are more familiar with each other and the relationship is closer. Due to the physical and psychological differences between men and women, the ways of expressing problems are different, and it is easy to communicate with each other poorly, creating a gap. When consulting, let both parties understand each other's expressions, enhance communication skills, and master certain communication skills to enable each other to communicate more smoothly. Communication is a bridge to solve problems. When the road is open, the heart can be better integrated.

3, conflict management: husband and wife (partners) are helpful to clear each other's ideas or opinions, usually can effectively discuss and resolve. It is inevitable that there will be some conflicts in the life of husband and wife. Through study, they can enhance each other's feelings, better deal with the disputes and quarrels that occur in marriage, and calmly resolve various conflicts.

4. Understanding each other's native family: The husband and wife (advocacy) must have a thorough understanding of the native family of both parties, and also know their influence and make appropriate psychological and relationship adjustments. A native family is a family where an individual was born and grew up. Many problems in marriage are often derived from native families. Understanding the native family of both parties can avoid the negative effects of their growth, the trauma that continues into adulthood, and the new family and the next generation.

5. Intimate relationship: couples (partners) can usually understand and meet each other's emotional needs, and can often express their emotions, common interests and activities; make the relationship closer and closer. Marriage in modern society is based on love. In such a marriage, we must know how to build feelings, maintain feelings, and enrich feelings. Otherwise, the relationship between the husband and wife will be vulnerable and will not withstand any changes in reality.

6. Have an understanding of sexual knowledge and psychological knowledge. This was a restricted area in the past, which has caused many young people to suffer. It can be said that the ignorance of sexual knowledge can have a destructive effect on the relationship between husband and wife, and this important issue cannot be avoided. I am afraid that I will not be able to adapt to my sexual life smoothly, or that my body shape changes due to sexual physiology affect my professional life. If this psychological symptom is not managed before marriage, it is likely to result in refusal to have a sexual relationship or sexual indifference when newly married. In severe cases, it may affect the relationship after marriage. Because marriage means having a husband and wife's sexual life, the quality of sexual life is related to the harmony and happiness of the husband and wife. Therefore, we must carefully study the relevant knowledge, especially understand some of the basics of heterosexual psychology. Quite helpful.

7, financial management: husband and wife (partners) have a clear discussion and division of labor on future family financial planning and management, and at the same time have a consensus on the concept and practice of using each other's money.

8. Marriage and pre-marital tests; effectively assess the marital relationship of couples (partners), and the marriageability of pre-marital partners, and make appropriate recommendations based on the evaluation results. By seeking advice from a psychologist, you can understand each other's personality characteristics, strengths, and weaknesses, so that you can avoid strengths and weaknesses in future marriages, reduce conflicts and frictions, and achieve a happy marriage.

Yan Yuanbosi psychologist's warm reminder: accepting pre-marital psychological counseling can allow you to better understand yourself and each other, make adequate preparations, make the marriage life happier, and the husband and wife relationship more harmonious.