What Is a Spontaneous Orgasm?

Orgasm refers to the physical and psychological response to sexual pleasure after sexual stimulation. There are usually physical manifestations such as ejaculation, blushing, and convulsions. Both men and women can orgasm. As long as there is sexual stimulation, it is possible. For example, masturbating, caressing some parts of the body, especially the sexy belt, can increase stimulation through some sexy pictures, videos, articles, articles, etc.

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Like female thinking, female orgasm is a complex phenomenon that is difficult to understand. Understanding women's orgasm can help to improve the sexual harmony of husband and wife and the quality of sexual life. Well-known New Zealand sex expert Sarah Gibson conducted in-depth research on female orgasm and summarized the five characteristics of female orgasm.

1. Relax to have an orgasm. Multiple studies have shown that women generally need 15 to 40 minutes of sexual intercourse to reach orgasm. In contrast, men can reach their orgasm in as fast as 2 minutes. As a result, many women either pretend to orgasm during the sex process or end up in vain. However, relaxation is an important factor in female orgasm. Therefore, the man should pass

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I. Women's intrinsic ability is the basis of female orgasm

We have studied the individual differences in structure and physiology of all animal and plant species. Therefore, we believe that some individual differences in human sexual behavior may also be derived from the physiological capabilities of those biological structures related to sexual response. Very different from individual to individual. This involves the state of the central nervous system and other related systems. The different states of these systems can form different sexual responses of different individuals, and sometimes the differences can be very large.

For example, some women can reach orgasm quickly within seconds of starting stimulation. Some women have the ability to reach orgasm repeatedly in a short period of time. Most other women, even after training, analyzing their childhood experiences, or undergoing any other type of psychotherapy, are unlikely to gain this ability.

Similarly, we also have reasons to believe that at least some women with slow sexual responses, even if they try their best, cannot physically obtain the rapid reaction ability of some women. Unfortunately, we don't know enough about the anatomical and physiological basis of sexual response to explain the exact source of these individual differences.

The relationship between orgasm and female age

Although the incidence and frequency of intramarital sexual intercourse and women getting orgasm from it, both reached their peak in the early stages of marriage and continued to decline after a long marriage. However, at the youngest age, the percentage of women who reached orgasm in the total number of sexual intercourse was just the lowest. As the age increased, this percentage continued to rise. Of course, the scope of our study is only under 60, so it is not enough to analyze older women.

The relationship between orgasm and education

For women with different educational levels, the cumulative incidence and frequency of sexual intercourse within marriage are basically the same. However, we also found that if we look at the number of women who have reached orgasm during this period of five years, then in any five-year period, there are obviously more such women among women with more education.

In terms of the percentage of orgasms in the total number of sexual intercourse, the difference between women with different levels of education is even greater. In any year between the first year after marriage and the 15th year, quite a few women with little education can't reach orgasm during sexual intercourse in marriage, but among women with more education, such people Much less. For example, women who did not reach orgasm in the first year after marriage accounted for 34% of those with junior high school education and 28% of those with high school education, but 24% of those with university education and graduate level Only 22% of the respondents. By the fifteenth year of marriage, the gap had narrowed, but it remained. Part of the reason for this difference is that women with different levels of education have different average ages when they marry, and women with less education get married earlier and the proportion of climax is smaller.

If we look at the number of women who reach their climax almost 100%, the gap is even more pronounced. Those with less education have fewer such people, and those with more education have more such people. For example, in the first year after marriage, more than 90% of people who have reached orgasm during sexual intercourse, only 31% of those with junior high school culture, 35% of those with high school culture, and those with college culture 39%, compared with 43% of graduate students. Even after the 15th year of marriage, this difference still exists, with 43% of people in high school education and 53% of graduate students.

In the past, when we applied a less suitable classification and statistics method in a smaller sample, we found that the proportion of women with less education reached orgasm during intercourse in marriage was higher than the above. But now we have a wider range of survey materials and more scientific analysis methods, so we have revised the previous data and the conclusions based on it.

The role of parents' occupational level on orgasm

In the first year after marriage, more than 90% of sexual intercourse reached orgasm, fewer women from lower-class families and more women from white-collar upper-class families. But the gap is not large: 34% of people from manual labor families and 40% of white collar workers, but until the 15th year after marriage, this gap still exists, as we examine Women with different levels of education find the same differences.

We have already pointed out, and it should be emphasized again: how a person's sexual response depends on what kind of stimulus he has been subjected to, what kind of living conditions the stimulus has taken, and what the previous sexual experience of the person was And how many have been.

V. Intergenerational differences in orgasm

If we look at the proportion of people who reached the climax during this period over a period of five years, the proportion has been increasing over the past 40 years. In the past 40 years, the percentage of total orgasms during sexual intercourse has also continued to rise, which may have greater social significance. Among women born before 1900, 33% never reached orgasm in the first year after marriage, compared with only 22% or 23% of women born after 1909. This gap remained until at least 15 years after marriage.

In the first year after marriage, more than 90% of the total number of sexual intercourse reached orgasm, only 37% of the older generation of women and 43% of the new generation of women. This intergenerational difference persists for at least 10 years after marriage. This phenomenon proves that what kind of sexual attitude and social morality are generally accepted by the social group a woman is in affects her attitude and sexual process.

The difficulties that a person encounters in sexual coordination often come from the cultural whole and the whole of the generation in which he or she always wants to integrate.

In fact, if he really wants to solve his own problem, he or she should accept some different attitudes and behavior patterns from his own social group. Of course, this may bring new problems, but millions of women have obviously adjusted themselves in this way without causing serious troubles. This is because, as our data proves, a large proportion of Americans have substantially changed their sexual attitudes over the past 40 years. As a result, many women have performed their functions more effectively during sexual intercourse within marriage.

The relationship between orgasm and the beginning of puberty

Sooner or later when puberty begins, there is basically no effect on the incidence and frequency of sexual intercourse within a woman. Even if the proportion of orgasms in total sexual intercourse is reached, there is no necessary connection. The only possible exception is those women who have not started puberty since the age of 15. Compared with other women, there are slightly more people who have never reached orgasm, and more than 90% of sexual intercourse have reached orgasm.

Impact of religious belief on orgasm

The impact in this regard is also not significant. Regardless of the incidence and frequency of orgasm, or the proportion of orgasms in the total number of sexual intercourse, there is no major difference between the most devout female, the average female and the most negative female, only the most devout female Catholic Only more restraints in the first year of marriage. There were significantly more people who could not reach orgasm at all, and significantly less than 90% of them.

The effect of age at marriage on orgasm

There are certain links in this regard. The lowest frequency of orgasms is for women who are married before the age of 20. Of these people, 34% never reached orgasm in the first year of marriage. Among women married between the ages of 21 and 30, such people account for only 22%. Only 17% of women married after the age of 30. This difference persisted until 10 and 15 years after marriage.

In the first year after marriage, more than 90% of women who had sexual intercourse reached orgasm, only 35% of those who were married before the age of 20 and 41% of those who were 21-25 years of age. However, this proportion no longer increases. On the contrary, among women who are married after the age of 25, this proportion has decreased.

Women who marry under 20 years of age have a lower orgasm ability, in part because many of them have never had sexual arousal or reached orgasm after they were 20 years old. This late maturity of sexual response may be based on biological factors, but may also be the product of the woman's inability to coordinate her interpersonal relationships in her early years. Those 20 or older women who have the ability to reach orgasm as soon as they get married may generally be because they have more pre-marital orgasm experience when they get married, which comes from pre-marital masturbation, intimate caress, Practical intercourse.

Relationship between length of marriage and orgasm

In the first month after marriage, 49% of wives have reached orgasm during sexual intercourse. This proportion is increasing day by day, and it has reached at least 67% by 6 months of marriage; by the end of the first year of marriage, it has reached 75%. The ability to reach orgasm means that women must learn through experience, and they must be completely freed from certain restraints of sexual activity and sexual reactions that have been imprisoned. In the first year after marriage alone, three-quarters of women did this. But after the first year, this growth rate has slowed. However, this ratio has continued to rise after 15 years or even more after marriage. By the 15th year after marriage, about 10% of women have never reached orgasm during sexual intercourse, and some women have not reached orgasm during marriage. It took 28 years to reach orgasm for the first time.

Those who did not reach the climax in the first year after marriage accounted for 25% of the total number of wives, decreased to 17% by the end of the fifth year, and decreased to 11% by the end of the 20th year.

On the other hand, in the first year after marriage, more than 90% of women who had sexual intercourse reached orgasm accounted for 39%, and this proportion gradually increased in later years. By the end of the 20th year, this proportion has reached 47%, that is, nearly half! These data fully prove that the accumulation of sexual experience and the improvement of psychological quality in the years after marriage can fully enhance the achievement of women in sexual intercourse. The ability to orgasm.

Ten, the effect of sexual intercourse skills on orgasm

From the oldest works of love literature and art to marriage guide booklets today, they have described with great interest the anatomical basis and techniques of sexual stimulation and sexual response. For thousands of years, people have generally accepted the concept that whether a sexual relationship is good or not depends on the techniques and arts used by the man to physically stimulate the woman.

However, we have discovered that people misunderstand how tricks work. People have always focused on the terminal organs (receptors) targeted by sexual skills, and those parts of the body that have receptors. Our investigations have found that sexual reactions always involve many physiological reactions, of which the subject The increasing tension of your whole body muscles is probably the most important response. Women's sexual response may not depend on intentional, changing, and lasting caressing techniques, but more often on short, uninterrupted compressions, and continuous and rhythmic stimulation. This is also true for many men, which can directly lead them to orgasm.

Our data even further shows that in many cases, the use of a variety of and varied sexual skills will actually interfere with the woman and prevent her from reaching orgasm. Most women are able to reach orgasm through masturbation, much faster than sexual intercourse in advance. This is because masturbation is usually continuous and continuous during the process of achieving orgasm.

Eleven, the relationship between orgasm after marriage and orgasm experience before marriage

The most important effect on the frequency of post-marital orgasm is more or less the climax reached during pre-marital sexual activity. About 36% of the women we surveyed had never reached orgasm before marriage. Whether in masturbation, sexual dreams, intimacy, caressing, premarital sex, or homosexual behavior before marriage, they have never had this experience. Among such women, 44% of them fail to reach orgasm in the first year after marriage. Among women who have had orgasms only a limited number of times before marriage, this proportion is only 19%. Among women who have experienced at least 25 orgasms before marriage, this proportion is only 13%.

In the first year after marriage, more than 90% of sexual intercourse has reached orgasm, only 25% of women who have never had orgasm before marriage, but 45% to 47% of women who have had orgasm before marriage. In the longer years after marriage, even at the end of the 15th year, the gap remained the same. Any kind of treatment may not be able to reduce the number of women who do not respond to sexual intercourse after marriage, as in the early years of orgasm experience, and may not increase the frequency of orgasms during sexual intercourse after marriage.

This related phenomenon may be due to the role of natural selection, but it may also be due to a causal relationship: pre-marital sexual experience is beneficial to sexual life after marriage, and both factors may exist. Women who can find their own orgasm before marriage, whether through independent or interpersonal sexual activity, may have always been the girls with strong sexual response ability, so they are the ones who most often reach orgasm after marriage wife.

On the other hand, our data also proves that women can learn to reach orgasm through experience. We have also emphasized that such learning is more effective in women's early years. At that time, her bondage had not yet fully developed, or she had not become as immovable as in the future. Therefore, early orgasm experience can directly enhance the good effect of sexual life after marriage.

The relationship between orgasm after marriage and sexual intercourse before marriage

Among the various sexual experiences before marriage, the one most closely related to orgasm after marriage is premarital sex, especially the kind of premarital sex that reaches orgasm. For example, 38% to 56% of women who have had sexual intercourse before marriage but have not reached orgasm cannot reach orgasm in the first year after marriage. Although this proportion decreases with each passing day after marriage, 11% to 30% of them still do not reach the climax until the end of the 10th year after marriage. On the contrary, among women who had had sexual intercourse before marriage and had reached at least 25 orgasms, only 3% of them did not reach the orgasm in the first year after marriage, and even lowered to only 1% in later years. That is to say, more than half of women who have sexual intercourse before marriage have no orgasm after marriage. This is 10 to 20 times higher than the proportion of women who have both sexual intercourse and orgasm before marriage but who do not reach orgasm after marriage.

Our data further points out that if more than 90% of sexual intercourse reaches orgasm in the total number of people, then the proportion of women who have reached orgasm in premarital sex is 2 to 3 of those who have not reached Times. In the first year after marriage, among those who did not reach orgasm before marriage, the above situation was 17% to 29%, while among those who had reached orgasm before marriage, the proportion was as high as 50% to 57%. The difference between the two parties has been the same for the 5 years before marriage. After that, although the gap narrowed, until the end of the 10th year after marriage, the proportion of those who had orgasm before marriage was still higher than that of women who did not have marriage.

We must emphasize that sexual intercourse and orgasm before marriage are not directly related to the success of sexual life after marriage. It just has a lot to do with the failure of sexual life after marriage. The reason for the failure of previous researches is that the researches attempted to find an inevitable connection between premarital sexual intercourse and postmarital sexual satisfaction, and the research done did not combine the two situations of premarital sexual intercourse (the climax reached Strictly distinguished from those that did not reach orgasm.

Thirteen, the relationship between orgasm after marriage and orgasm reached by intimacy before marriage

In this regard, there is a considerable correlation between the two. Women who have never reached orgasm by intimacy before marriage, 35% did not reach orgasm in the first year after marriage, but among women who have reached orgasm by intimacy before marriage, only 10%, the difference remains at least 15 years after marriage .

The more important role of premarital intimacy is that it guides a woman to understand what it means for her to be in physical contact with a person of the opposite sex. Many women who do not respond after marriage have little or no involvement in premarital intimacy, sometimes simply because they refuse to accept any physical contact sufficient to trigger sexual arousal. The intimate experience before marriage helps to educate such girls to understand the significance of this contact.

The relationship between orgasm during marriage and masturbation before marriage

The correlation between the two in this regard is not as obvious as the aforementioned premarital sex and intimacy, but it does exist. Among women who never masturbated before or got an orgasm from it, between 31% and 37% of them failed to reach orgasm in the first year after marriage, in the next 5 years, this proportion only decreased A little bit; and among women who have masturbated before marriage, the proportion is only 13% to 16%.

For young Americans, there is no universally applicable curriculum that will prepare them for the coordination of sexual relationships after marriage. However, anyone who studies a happy marriage objectively and scientifically will undoubtedly not disapprove of the important role of sexual intercourse in marriage, and will undoubtedly deny that there is a correlation between premarital sexual activity and postmarital sexual coordination. ^[1]