What Is a Sexual Fantasy?

Sex psychology (SEXPSY) name, one of masturbation behavior. Refers to a "sequential story" with sexuality that is written and directed by adolescent men, women, and unmarried adults when their sexual desire is not met. These people have a strong love for heterosexuality, but they can't have sex with them. Therefore, they have seen and heard relevant sexual scenes, reorganized their own brains into their own sexual processes. Sexual fantasies are a common sexual phenomenon in humans, commonly known as sexual immorality. ^[1]

Sexual fantasies are another self-stimulating way of sexual activity achieved through imagination. It can happen alone or during masturbation or intercourse. The power of sexual fantasies has an important influence on human natural sexual response. Sexual fantasies during the sexual intercourse between the two parties can also promote the increase of sexual excitement, help to overcome tension and restrain the psychology, and help regulate the long-term and tedious sexual life of both parties. It often brings freshness to people. The use of sexual fantasy also holds a certain position in sexual therapy.

Also known as "sexual imagination", it is a universal fictional imagination with sexual content. It is a reflection of individual experience and the product of social culture. It has the functions of promoting sexual pleasure and self-satisfaction. According to research, sexual fantasies start around adolescent boys and girls around the age of 17. Previously, the main content of male fantasies was sports and adventure activities, and women were connected with the content of her favorite novels. The content of sexual fantasies is highly individualized and reflects the extent of each party's emotional or rational experience. The climax of some sexual fantasies may be just a kiss of the opposite sex, while others may have sexual intercourse. Most adolescent sexual fantasies are not accompanied by sexual behavior, and the content is different between men and women. Men rehearse in their minds the sexual activities or similar plots that they can not expect, and women imagine on the theme of marriage and love, forming a "series "Story," and cherish it so that it's never made public to anyone. Sexual fantasies during masturbation and intercourse are quite common. About 3/4 of men and 1/2 of women report that they have sexual fantasies during masturbation to promote sexual pleasure. The roles of men and women in sexual fantasy cannot be separated from the social and cultural conventions on roles. For example, men often impose sexual acts on each other compulsively and aggressively in sexual fantasies, while women are forced to obey in sexual fantasies. Sexual fantasies in sexual intercourse are less related to the object of sexual intercourse. The parties often imagine having sex with a sexy stranger to avoid the dullness of sexual life. ^[2]

Sexual fantasy is one of the products of cerebral cortex activity, which is between consciousness and subconsciousness. It is the spiritual satisfaction of hope that cannot be realized temporarily in real life. It can strengthen physical stimulation, deepen sexual experience, and provide deeper sexual satisfaction.

Some people love to be bystanders (like movie viewers) in sexual fantasy, some prefer to act as the master of the plot in sexual fantasy, and others like multiple guest roles. Sexual fantasies often occur during sexual activity, especially

Sexual fantasy

Women and men, first of all, regard their sexual partners in reality as the object of sexual fantasy. Fantasy and lover in bed make love in a way that they can imagine. The reason is simple. In addition to emotional factors, sexual fantasies are most likely to be realized only in the physical body at your fingertips.

The content of sexual fantasies is usually focused on the pursuit of joyful sexual activities, but there are also a few people who fantasize about being raped or sexually abused. From the perspective of psychoanalysis, there are two interpretations: The subconscious instinct is combined with sexual fantasies. If they point at sexual objects, they constitute the fantasy of abusive objects; if they point at themselves, they constitute the fantasy of sexual abuse. Under the influence of traditional sexual depression thoughts, women often feel shame or guilt towards sexual behavior. If they imagine themselves in sexual fantasy to actively and willingly pursue sexual life, it will cause self-guilt or anxiety; "Reverse formation" psychological defense mechanism, fantasizing into the "rape" behavior imposed on oneself, can allow one to enjoy both sexual pleasure and justification for himself.

Sexual Aphrodisiac

Sexual fantasies can become a kind of sexual stimulation, as if it is a "psychological aphrodisiac". Therefore, it is often used to stimulate orgasm during masturbation and sex. If you are not satisfied with your sexual partner during sex, orgasm is often achieved through fantasy.

Many people think that sexual fantasies are a shameful thing, and that "willful behavior" in the illusion is regretful and self-blame. But Fox News Network reported that sex educators and medical experts particularly valued sexual fantasy and thought it should be "restored Zhaoxue" and encouraged people to put fantasy wings on sex.

Brett Carr, a psychotherapy expert in London, UK, analyzed 23,000 sexual fantasy questionnaires and found that most people's sexual fantasy content is the same. The most common include naked bodies, lovers' throbbing movements and fantasy fantasies. Three parties etc. Moreover, there is not much difference between men and women, but men are more inclined to specific sexual behaviors and organs, which involve more visual content; women are more involved in familiar partners and small details in sex. "

People with rich imagination can imagine sex. Dr. Peter Staats at a hospital in Baltimore tested a group of college students in the hospital. He asked the college students to put their hands in the cold water until they could not bear the pain and then took out their hands. But if you put your hands in the water while imagining something beautiful to divert your attention, those college students who imagine sex will spend twice as much time in ice water as others. Dr Staatz argues that pain perception is rationally controlled because the same area of the brain "radiates" emotions and pain. If a patient imagines himself racing in a car race, he will forget the pain.

What excites women is that sexual imagination also helps to lose weight. When ladies can't help but want to eat snacks, think about sex. When the mind is full of sexual imagination, the snacks that make people obese are naturally left behind.

I will set a romantic atmosphere, choose a good partner, design the story of the turn, and the climax of me. If every sex can be so beautiful, it will no longer be difficult to get an orgasm. "

Ivan, a special sex expert at Fox News, pointed out that sexual fantasy can bring many tangible benefits. For example, when there is no actual sexual life, sexual fantasy is a great alternative, it can make sexual life more interesting; help people overcome sexual anxiety, improve sexual self-confidence, and tricks in sexual love are renovated and frequently used. In addition, sexual fantasies are not limited in time and place, and there is no cost. Couples can use this to awaken the passion of sleep and help each other reach their climax.

But all forms and objects should be practicable characters, time, and place, which are important elements to keep the sexual life active and powerful. In addition, if it does not violate ethics or social morality, couples should apply fantasy to real life and spend more time resonating with their partners, which will help overcome the monotony and tedium of sex.

Sexual fantasy frequency

Psychologists from the Ohio State University surveyed students aged 18-25 and asked them to record the number of times they fantasize about sex, food, and sleep during the week.

In some results, the highest number of female sexual fantasies per day was 140, basically every 7 minutes. On average, women think of food and sleep 15.3 times (once every 62 minutes) and 13.4 times (once every 72 minutes). Men think about food 25.1 times a day (once every 38 minutes) and sleep every 33 minutes.

The results of the final survey indicate that men are more concerned about their physical needs than women, and this includes sexual needs as well. And the women in the survey said that they thought about some inferior problems because of social pressure.

Sexual fantasies

Don't be overly addicted to sexual fantasies, otherwise it will damage your health and even cause social problems of one kind or another.