What Is Donor Relations?

On the morning of March 10, 2002, Sun Yan, who filmed "Jade Goddess of Mercy" in Kunming, accidentally saw a large series of reports "Hope in the Mountain" broadcasted by Chongqing Satellite TV. He was reporting the poor senior high school students from Wuxi Chengxiang Middle School in Chongqing to The situation of Haiqing studying hard. Touched by the fate of Xiang Haiqing, she asked her mother to page through the hotline on the show, to get in touch with Xiang Haiqing, and began funding his studies.

Sun Yan donation gate incident

The next year was one night after the National Day in 2006.

In May 2002, I took the first donation that Aunt Deng sent me from my teacher. At that time, my hands were shaking and tears burst into my eyes. I didn't even feel the teacher patted my shoulder. That day I wrote a letter to Aunt Deng expressing my gratitude. Aunt Deng also said a lot in the reply to encourage me to support me.

Later, Aunt Deng called me again for the first time. She asked me to study hard on the phone and said that she and her sister were willing to bear my expenses until I graduated from college. Later, Aunt Deng repeatedly mentioned that she subsidized tuition and living expenses to graduate from university, and asked me to apply for schools in big cities such as Beijing and Shanghai. During this period, my sister also called me and sent me some counseling materials.

I was admitted to Shanghai Fisheries University in 2005. Aunt Deng and my sister came to the train station to meet me in person. Aunt Deng and I hugged tightly and burst into tears. Then Aunt Deng accompanied me to the school to report, paid me the tuition, and sent me the living expenses monthly, and also said that they would call them whenever they were short of money.

After the semester began, I was appointed as the monitor by the counselor, and later became a student union cadre. However, Aunt Deng asked me to withdraw from the Student Union because I was a poor child. The first month after I was a Student Union cadre, I used a 90 yuan phone bill. Although I explained a lot, she insisted on her opinion. In this case, I adopted the opinions of my classmates and pretended to agree with Aunt Deng, but I was still a student union cadre.

At school, meals cost about 400 yuan per month, plus electricity and water bills at about 500 yuan. Aunt Deng has been giving me living expenses according to this standard. But in September, I spent 175 yuan to get the hepatitis B vaccine in school. I told my sister s assistant about this situation, and then Aunt Deng called me. She said I was annoyed, I only asked them to ask for money. You should find a way to solve it yourself.

I apologized to the aunt with tears. But I was still very sad afterwards, because Aunt Deng told me on the phone that her dog was more obedient than me. I asked myself, am I even worse than a dog? In fact, to ease their burden, I also worked as a counselor assistant at school. However, I paid my mother's salary for the first two months because her mother was very ill and had no money for treatment. Since then, I have never dared ask them for money.

Later, my sister's assistant came to me and took away all the letters and photos written by Aunt Deng and my sister, saying that my sister needed to do the show. Aunt Deng came to the school again to learn about the situation. This time, understanding the situation gave me a lot of excitement. After that, Aunt Deng and her sister became even colder to me. At this time, the counselor talked to me once, and she told me that she would help me to win the poverty subsidy of the school. She said that a person's personality and self-esteem are important, and asked me to weigh the advantages and disadvantages and make the appropriate choice.

From November 2005 to the present, I call Aunt Deng every festival and she ignores me. Our aid relationship also ended in November 2005. My sister's phone was also transferred to the Chinese secretary's desk. I couldn't contact her. I didn't reply to her by sending a text message. Perhaps my sister was very busy.

According to Qiu Chaoju later on CCTV's "Society and Law" program, it was true that Sun Hui donated, and Xiang Haiqing was also a grateful person, but why is this the end? Therefore, he wanted to discuss the topics of charity, donation and love from the perspective of social ethics.

Qiu Chaoju posted a notice in the "Chongqing Reporter's House" forum in "Xici Hutong" to reveal "the grudges and hatred of a pair of star mother and daughter and a poor college student".

After seeing the notice from the forum, Chongqing Evening News reporters Long Jun and Wu Yingying keenly felt that this was a sensational subject and immediately found the poster. In an interview, Qiu Chaoju had the words first: 1. Do nt point at Sun Sun s name. After all, Sun Sun s mother and daughter volunteered to help the poor students.

Chongqing Evening News reporter gladly agreed. The two sides also agreed that Qiu Chaoju first disclosed the full text of the letter on the Tianya blog, and the Chongqing Evening News reported it on the grounds of "According to Qiao Zhaoju's Tianya Blog Disclosure", but in order to avoid possible negative effects, the Evening News report was not on the electronic version.

In the early morning of November 29, 2006, Qiu Chaoju published the full text of his letter to Haiqing under the title of "Why Good Seeds Are All Fruits of VariationThe Resentment and Resentment Between a Poor College Student and a Star Mother and Daughter" On the End of the World blog. The article only made a technical treatment-changed Sun Jun's name to "Star SL", but also specially reminded that the star "is from Shanghai and has a red screen in China." Later, some media said that it was easy to infer the true identity of the star when he saw his blog.

On the same day, the entertainment section of the Chongqing Evening News covered the entire page with the news that "stars and aided poor college students had a rampant" and extracted the main content of the letter to Haiqing.

Although the Chongqing Evening News report did not go online, it did not affect the spread of the matter online.

The first to reproduce this is Huashang.com. This kind of news with celebrity information and complex connotations has attracted many media, and many domestic websites, BBS, blogs and media are involved in this storm.

Although Qiu Chaoju's blog and Chongqing Evening News reported that he replaced "Sl" with Sun Ye and "Zhang Haiqing" instead of Xiang Haiqing, and also disappeared from the "Shanghai Fisheries University" he attended. However, Internet users quickly exposed the real situation of the recipients and their schools through human flesh search.

Although disclosures by Qiu Zhaoju's Tianya Blog and Chongqing Evening News, as well as reprints by Huashang.com, have no intention of blaming donors and recipients, netizens are clearly reluctant to explore topics on the Internet that belong to social scientists.

Xiang Haiqing, one of the parties, became the target of criticism. The main opinion against him is: he is dependent on thinking, only wants people to help, and does not try to save himself; seeing that the Sun family is rich, a little psychological imbalance, I do nt think that it s okay to spend more; tell Qiu Chaoju about them, it s a bit gracious . Han Han even wrote in his bitter language on his blog: "Ordinary people are not allowed to keep a large dog in the city. Why can Sun Sun raise a wolf in Shanghai?" As a metaphor, it is ironic that the college students helped by Sun Wei are "wolves". With a huge appeal and influence, for a time, the forum blog was full of "wolves". There are even people in the Tianya community claiming to set up "Baiyanjiao", and headed towards Haiqing.

The main opinion on Sun Yun s mother and daughter is: Does Sun Yun s mother say her dogs are more obedient than Xiang Haiqing? If so, it hurts Hai Qing s self-esteem too much; Is Sun Yun s mother called Xiang Hai? He resigned from the post of Student Union cadre. If he called, he added additional donation conditions that should not be attached; for these reasons, interrupting the funding was a bit too small.

There are not many opinions on Qiu Chaoju, mainly to question the behavior of "placing Xiang Haiqing's personal letters on blogs". The nearly 100-year-old national top 100 journalist couldn't stand the stigma and insults of "anger youth" and had to shut down his Tianya blog four days later.

When the Internet and print media hyped up the matter, CCTV reflected on the incident with a calm attitude. On December 23, 24, and 25, 2006, CCTV's "Everyone's Opinions" used the scale of three episodes of the upper, middle, and lower levels, and reported it in detail under the title of "Sun Sun's Donation to Make a Storm"; then, CCTV January 9, 2007 The "Social Record" program in Japan, titled "Seeds and Fruits", started with the event of Sun Yi's donation and showed the history of Qiu Chaoju and the poor students he donated to the audience, prompting society's thinking about the form of donation and how to treat love.

Qiu Chaoju spurred poor college student Xiang Haiqing because of this disclosure. Therefore, Southern Metropolis Daily listed Qiu Chao as "China 10" in the report of "Network Yearbook 2006: Top Ten Pushers" on January 10, 2007. "Big Internet Pusher" third place; On April 18 of the same year, Phoenix Satellite TV reported the 2006 list of mainland Internet pushers in the "Phoenix Info List" program broadcast every night, and Qiu Chaoju ranked fifth.

Since then, the Sun Dai donation incident has come to an end.