What Are Self-Harm Behaviors?

Self-harm refers to a person's physical and mental harm. Generally speaking, mental damage is difficult to detect. Therefore, unless otherwise specified, self-harm refers only to physical harm. The most extreme case of self-harm is suicide. Self-harm is not uncommon. Everyone may have thoughts of self-harm, but most people have not taken any actual action.

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No matter what form of self-harm, it will be considered as a manifestation of mental immaturity or imperfection, so it is difficult to be accepted by society.

When people with self-harm enter the society, society may be disgusted, restricted or rejected in many ways because they are worried about the fragility or alternatives of the self-harm.

Self-harm, American psychologist Peter, believes that about half of the people in the world have a tendency to masochism. They feel that they are all shortcomings, that everything runs counter to their wishes, loses self-confidence, and is willing to let others rest on themselves. The word "masochism" is very popular in modern society. Stars have come up with the trick of "masochism" so that more people pay attention to themselves. Even travel agencies have launched "masochism" in their travel routes to attract customers. Some people even posted some masochistic and sadistic experiences online or posted some pictures of "suicide, masochism and self-harm", communicated with more people, and set up their own special websites and clubs. Zheng Xiaohua, chief expert of the Changchun Psychological Hospital and director of the Changchun Mental Health Institute, said in an interview with reporters that such abuse of "self-abuse" for hype is not good for people's mental health. People who abuse themselves do not want to open their hearts. Since Ms. Pei has divorced her husband, she always feels that she can do nothing. She believes that the fault of divorce lies entirely with herself and she is depressed all day. Once when she was doing needlework, she accidentally pierced herself with a needle. At that time, she felt that feeling was wonderful and made her feel comfortable. So every few days, she pierced herself with a needle. After a long time, she felt that it was not enough to just stick a needle, so she tried to bury the first needle in her body. She felt that the needle felt better in her body than acupuncture. Just like this, every five or six days She buried a needle in her body until the last needle stuck to her sciatic nerve, which prevented her from walking normally, and she went to the hospital for treatment. At that time, more than 30 needles had been buried in her body.

People who abuse themselves will never reveal their feelings to others. Some people worry that when others know, they will make jokes or do not understand their actions, and they will be opposed by others. Therefore, they always suffer the pleasure of masochism in silence.

There are physical and mental masochism. When the mood is depressed, the behavior or method that you add to yourself is a kind of abnormal psychology. Most of the masochists do not agree with themselves, meaning to punish themselves, and it is difficult to get rid of them by other methods. They get spiritual pleasure. They do not dare to say "no" or "pain". Self-harm and self-discipline have a certain purpose, which is the pain that needs to be temporarily suffered in order to achieve a certain purpose or goal.

People with masochism are very painful, and they want to get rid of this masochism as soon as possible. But just smashing things and shouting is not enough. The way to completely get rid of this feeling is to improve your self-confidence. Don't demand yourself in all things. Learn to analyze and look at the problem objectively and comprehensively. It is even more important to learn to communicate with others, to tell others about their confusion and dissatisfaction, and let them out, so as to avoid the occurrence of self-abuse psychology and self-abuse tendency. Professor Zheng said that people with masochistic tendencies and masochistic psychology are not terrible, and do not close themselves. When individuals cannot get rid of this psychology, they must seek medical treatment in time. With the help of a doctor, they can completely get rid of this bad mental state. Yes, don't be afraid of illness!