What Is Gephyrophobia?

Attending a classmate's wedding was a happy thing. However, with the arrival of the "post-80s" marriage peak and the increase in gift money, some "post-80s" students who are still studying in the school face a wedding invitation sent by their classmates, in addition to the blessings from their hearts Helplessness and "fear." Sociologists believe that blindly pursuing the "big pomp" and "high-end" of the wedding, and comparing the amount of gift money, such a wedding has actually changed its taste, and it is easy to dilute the beautiful friendship between classmates.

Invitation phobia

Although still a student, in order not to lose face, under normal circumstances, the amount of gifts still refer to the standards of office workers, many college students work after graduation, some post-80s choose to study. Whenever a classmate gets married, if the classmates who have already been on work get a 500 yuan gift, they will also swell their faces and become fat, arrogantly embracing their classmates. This type of post-80s monthly living expenses are basically fixed. If you have two 500 yuan gift cards a month, it will definitely not be enough. Not only are some things that can be bought or not bought, but also disrupted the life plan. If the gift money has not yet arrived at the wedding, you must reach out to "help" at home, or ask a friend to help, and then repay it later.

"80" students are mainly single children, and they are a group with relatively active thinking and strong sense of innovation. If you blindly compare the "money money" of the wedding, it will not only fall into the stereotypes, but also carry a heavy "gift money debt" on yourself and your family, which will bring a lot of extra burden to the family. It is suggested that young people in the new era should choose more innovative weddings and avoid comparing each other on money money, so as to avoid the beautiful friendship between classmates and colleagues being diluted by the money money. Traveling for marriage and group wedding are all good choices, or hold a small-scale wedding ceremony, and then use the mobile phone, the Internet and other communication tools to publish the news of marriage, so that friends can share the joy of marriage together. This will not only make the wedding more meaningful, but also stop the "gift" more and more abnormal atmosphere.