What Is Neophobia?

Neonatal phobia is anxiety caused by parents of new students in elementary school because they are worried about their children's unsuitability for school life. Most of this anxiety is related to parents 'herd mentality and comparison psychology. Parents' anxiety also affects children's emotions, causing Obstacles in children's self-care ability and interpersonal communication.

Neophobia

Neonatal phobia occurs in primary school

1. Separation anxiety.

For parents of boarding freshmen, longer separation can also lead to "

The causes of anxiety and disorientation for parents of elementary school freshmen are very complex:

1. Some parents don't trust the school and teachers, and they can be good for their children after school.

Experts said that parents' "new birth anxiety disorder" is not actually a psychological disorder in the true sense. It is a social disease and a general mood caused by herd mentality. It does not require medical advice. Parents need to do What I do is try to adjust my mentality as much as possible, and treat my child's growth with a calm mindset, stick to my own viewpoint, and not be influenced by the environment.

1. Parents must believe that children are healthy and normal and can adapt to primary school life. Even if something goes wrong, it's temporary and normal.

If the parent's mentality is calm, the child will often get a sense of security and can use their abilities normally. Of course, adjusting the rest time is still necessary, such as getting up early and reducing naps.

2. For boarding children, parents should establish a "family compensation mechanism", pick up home on weekends, parents accompanied the children to go out, play games, visit bookstores, talk to each other, etc., so that the children can reach a spiritual balance.

Don't think that your child's boarding is hard work, and picking them up at the end of the week is just eating and drinking.

3. Parents and school teachers need to communicate with each other to form a consensus on children with admissions to school.

Parents should not just blame their children. They should understand their children as much as possible and talk to them. Prepare some plans for possible problems in primary schools, that is, let the children "soft landing" from kindergarten to primary school, and gradually adapt to a new life.